Hi, it's me, again. The last time I wrote here, it was February and I was about to prep my thesis proposal presentation. Now it's July and guess what, folks? I am (unofficially) a bachelor of public health! *applauding audiences*
Hehehe.. okay I don't know why I'm here now actually, I just feel like writing. And I don't really have any theme for today's post. I guess I'm just gonna share what I have in mind right now.
So lately I've gone through some adversities in my life (I know everyone have, it's really selfish if I say that I'm the only one). It just got me thinking that there are so many valuable lessons I learnt from all of them. One of the most important life lesson I learnt is, to let go of things peacefully. To accept things just the way they are and deal with it. Certain painful experiences need to happen, not because we deserve sadness, but because we deserve to be stronger and wiser. I cannot lie, it does sting so badly when things don’t turn out the way I want it. But as we get through each problems in life, the pain caused by the problem itself becomes more manageable. When we stop looking for someone or something to blame for our hardship, and just trying to focus on polishing ourselves up, we will gain serenity in our mind and heart that we’re longing for. And isn’t that what everybody wants? To have some peace in their mind and heart? To be content with life. No need to blame yourself or others, it is nobody’s fault. No need to hate yourself for doing it wrong, because if you hadn’t done so, you wouldn’t learn your lesson. Respect and cherish yourself. Everybody is unique. Everybody is capable of change. No need to hate the other person, too. It’s just pointless. Whatever it is, it needs to happen. Because that’s just life. This sadness you’re currently feeling will go away. It’s only temporary. Everything in life is.
I don’t know what I’m blabbering about. Maybe you guys don’t really know what I’m talking about, or you do? Well, what I’m trying to say is.... hang in there. Whoever you are, whatever problems you’re currently dealing with, you will get through it. You always did in the past. You, being alive right here right now, is a solid evidence that you survived those hardships in the past. And what makes you think you wouldn’t now? The more advanced your life is, the more problem you will encounter. That just means you’re going to upgrade yourself to a whole new level. Well, like everybody says, “When life gives you lemons, make lemonade”. See you in the next post!
